Homeschooling vs public schooling.

Imagine that it’s that time of year again.

When the summer is just about over, your kid’s faces are glowing with health, the new school shoes and PE kit bags are stuffed and polished, waiting in the hallway. 

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Girl sitting looking sad. Homeschooling Vs public school


That time of year when you try your hardest to soothe your distressed kids.

Reassure them – as they become sadder, more withdrawn and filled with dread as their first day back at school looms closer.

That was me ten years ago.

Faced with unhappy public school kids I asked myself whether I could possibly homeschool my children.

Me, who had no teaching experience whatsoever.

Me, who is not patient or homeschooly in any way shape or form. How could I ever be a successful homeschooling parent?

But I couldn’t face another term of tears and anguish, so, desperately,  I began to research the benefits of homeschooling and scoured the internet for anything I could find on how to start homeschooling.

I compared everything I could about homeschooling vs public school in an attempt to decide if it was possible for me to teach my own kids at home. To see if I too could be one of those homeschool moms that you see on magazines while waiting in line at the checkout.



A child drawing a picture. Homeschooling vs public school


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Which Is Best? Homeschooling Or Public School?


Now, nine years on and my kids have done both; public schooling and homeschooling and for us; without a doubt, there is no comparison – it would be homeschooling all the way.


My biggest claim to fame when it comes to homeschooling my two kids (who are now 18, and 15 )  is that last year, my husband and I took our teenagers backpacking around the world for a year. 

I know.

At first, I worried that they would miss out.

We had a homeschooling schedule that worked, and, after nine years of learning at home, both of my kids were used to a solid routine.

(I don’t mind admitting to you that I am a bit of a control freak).

The reason I am telling you my life story is that I wish I’d known someone like me when I started homeschooling.


A mother with young children. Homeschooling and public school. How do they compare?



What I Wish I’d Known When I Started Homeschooling


I am almost at the end of my gorgeous, homeschooling journey.

I shouldn’t say gorgeous.

It’s gorgeous now because I am looking back and have succeeded; but at the time, nine years ago when I first took my children out of public school to teach them at home, I did what every unsure parent does.

I worried and fretted, cried and panicked.

Just like you. 

I wished I’d known someone like me back then.

Someone who had taken their kids out of public school, knew how to homeschool for 3 days a week, homeschooled them until they were 18; dabbled in unschooling while they backpacked the world for a year and still, was able to smile.

A  real living example.



Someone that could prove to me that just because you homeschool your kids and (maybe) let them play too many computer games,  they won’t turn out to be unsocialised little freaks who can’t look a stranger in the eye or recite their nine times table.

And now,  I am that person.

Ten years on and my kids are beautiful, intelligent, happy kids.

And I’m here for you



family smiling.Homeschooling around the world

Because of homeschooling, we were able to travel the world with our homeschooled teenagers for a year.


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1: Public School Mornings


The school day starts at 8.40 am sharp. 7.30 am if you have to catch the bus. That is not so bad if you have primary school children, but little kids and teenagers do NOT like getting up early and going out when it is still dark.


V’s Homeschooling Mornings


Learning at home starts when you want it to. That is one of the benefits of homeschooling – flexibility.

If your kid is a teenager like mine and can’t get out of bed before 10 am for fear of the light revealing his vampire teeth and bat wings, then let them get up late and work until they have finished. 


2: Public School Holidays


Your kids will be granted eight to ten weeks in the summer, a couple of weeks at Christmas and a few weeks here and there throughout the year.

Along with every other, Tom Dick and Harry.

Hotels are extortionate, flights are ridiculous, campsites are crowded. You get the picture. And don’t even think about trying to sneak your kids out a week or two early. The number of hefty fines issued to the parents of schoolchildren who had been absent from school with ‘no exceptional circumstance’  rose in the Uk by 93% in 2018.


V’s Homeschooling Holidays


Whenever you feel like it. 



3: Public School Classroom Numbers


I’m sure that you have done your research on public school class sizes around the world but just so that we are clear, (from data gathered in 2016) the US the average class size was 20.8 and in the UK 25.9.

Usually with one teacher and a helper. 


V’s Homeschooling Classroom Numbers


Your classroom numbers will be however many kids you have.

For us, it was five, including the dog and the cat.



Girl with a cat Homeschooling

My daughter doing her maths with her best friend



4: Public School Sickness


I don’t mean to be gross here and I’m sorry if you are eating, but when comparing homeschooling to public school, these facts cannot be ignored.

Nits, colds, school sores, pink eye – you can guarantee that by sending your child to a room full of smellies for 6 hours a day they will, regularly contract one or more of these common public school illnesses.

When my kids were both at public school the bane of my life was my daughter’s nits, and it took my son weeks to get rid of his school sores, so I’m bringing this to you with love and sympathy.




V’s Homeschooling Sickness


Hardly ever. And nits were thankfully a thing of the past once we started homeschooling.

Please stop itching your head.



5: Public School Socialising


This word gets under my skin.  And I bet any other homeschooling parent (and child) feels the same. 

If you are considering homeschooling your child – whether they are in public school or not, know that you will be asked (about a million times a week) “what about socialising?”.


Ok then. Yes. Socialising. Shall I start with the good or the bad?


The Good


The good. Your kids will be with their friends at school.

Let me rephrase that. They will be with them at break time. And for ten minutes after school. And if they are teenagers they will sit alongside them on their phones while they talk to other friends who aren’t in that school.

That’s the good socialising that everyone goes on about. If your child needs and loves this then fine; leave them where they are.

Now then.


The Bad


Bullies. Your kids might get bullied. Hopefully not, but it is quite possible.

Both of my children were, so that’s why I mention it. And it’s horrible, so no thank you, socialisation is not high on my list of priorities where public school is concerned and neither should it be yours.


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Homeschooling Socialisation


Maybe back in the olden days when I was a girl; before the world had discovered tweets or snap chat or ‘live stories’ and you lived in the back and beyond on a farm with nothing but fields and cows then yes; homeschooling socialisation might have been a concern.


Social Media

Now; if you are a homeschooling parent (of a teenager at least) your problem won’t be how to get them to socialise, it will be how to get them off their phones and to stop taking selfies and posting them on social media sites.

The internet has brought with it a new way for kids to make friends and socialise. My son would sit for hours playing computer games with kids from different countries – laughing and joking, just like a real socialised Pinocchio boy.



Friends In The Homeschool Community

For those who have kids that are yet to discover the addiction of technology; clubs, playdates, other homeschool families will bring your kids plenty of socialisation. 

Unless you live on the moon, you will never have to worry about your kids having friends. I promise.



And as for the bullying issue. I was so often told by so-called well-wishers that  “if your kids don’t know how to deal with bullies they will never get along in life”.


Take it from me who was bullied continuously for three years at high school; it made me no stronger and no more robust than if you had made me eat a tub of nails for my breakfast every day.

I’m still a wimp who hates confrontation.

So, that puts that statement into the ‘what a load of crap basket’.



Teenagers homeschooling in India

My two teenagers ‘travel schooling’ in India! We took them backpacking around the world for a year. One of the benefits of homeschooling is that you don’t have to ask the schools permission!



6: Public School Learning


If your child is a middle of the roader, then you’ll be ok. As long as he or she doesn’t need extra help or finishes way ahead of the other kids, then all will be good.

But I’m going to take a wild guess that this isn’t the case and that’s why you’re here reading this article on homeschooling vs public school.

You child is either (like mine was) being told that he was ‘slow at maths’ or you are in discussion as to whether you can put your child ahead a year because she is bored with the level of work and finds it too easy.

Either way, public school has neither the resources nor the time to cater for 25 different levels of learning.

In our school at least, we were expected to keep up, shut up and put up.



V’s Homeschool Learning


Only you know your child.

You know what they need and how they learn best.

Bringing your child home to learn gives them the time, space, and a safe environment in which to learn what they want when they want and how they want to learn it.


teenage girl homeschooling on her computer

My homeschooling teenage girl; learning at her own pace


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Frequently Asked Questions About Homeschooling Vs Public Schooling


Will homeschooling affect college?


Check out the college of your choice to see what test results they require. 

Studies suggest that homeschoolers who go on to college outperform their peers. So much so that many colleges actively seek out homeschoolers as they tend to be excellent college students.

College Admissions officers will take into account not only the exams that the homeschooled student has taken (easy to do online with companies such as ) but the life skills they have acquired and the opportunities they’ve had. 

There are lots of homeschool college courses that you can do online too.


How much will homeschooling cost? How much are homeschooling programs?


Homeschooling costs as much or as little as you’d like it to. There are thousands of free resources online that you can use that do the job perfectly.

A huge benefit of homeschooling is the flexibility. It’s up to you what you teach and how you teach it. this could be free lessons online or a full curriculum containing expensive books, audio files and video lessons

It’s your choice.


Homeschooling Resources


When my kids were between 6 and 12, I never bought any curriculum programme for English; instead, I encouraged them to write poems, read books from the library and write stories. All of which were free.

We did, however, use (and I swear by) the Singapore Maths books for homeschooling. Singapore maths is recognised throughout the homeschool community as being one of the best maths programs in the world.

Their lovely illustrated maths books took my kids right up to high school level, and I couldn’t fault them.

If you have little kids, then I would recommend buying some educational posters like these and putting them around the house. (Mine were always in the bathroom so were well-read!) These posters are guaranteed to spark a conversation which, let’s face it,  is the core of learning!


Online Learning

Once your kids get to a certain age they will enjoy learning online. In fact, that is all they will want to do. Lucky for us homeschoolers there are thousands of online courses out there. 

Let me share with you the best ones that we found.

Udemy online learning is probably the most reasonably priced and also the most well known.

My son did a coding course with Udemy which he loved and learned stacks. 

My daughter did a Ukulele Course which enabled her to go out into town and make money busking, she also learned basic Chinese by using this course.




Homeschooling. Can you skip grades?


Yes.  If you are a quick learner or you are finding the work is too easy, then you may skip a grade.


Homeschooling Versus Public School statistics


This information was taken from the website

According to a study completed in 2011, 3.4% of school-aged children in the United States were educated at home. Of these 1,770,000 students, 25% of their parents decided to homeschool based on concerns about the environment of other schools. Other reasons for homeschooling included: non-educational (family, travel, financial) reasons (21%); dissatisfaction with instruction at other schools (19%); and religious instructional needs (16%).



Can you homeschool while working full time?


While it is certainly possible to homeschool while working full time, it is something that I tried, struggled with and quit, so I am probably not the best person to ask.

I do know of plenty of successful homeschool parents that work full time, and their kids have not suffered; in fact, they appear to be more independent and flexible because of it.









Homeschooling. How to get started?


Find your local homeschooling community. These support groups offer a wealth of homeschooling advice and tips and will be an anchor for you when beginning on your homeschooling journey.

Contact your local education authorities. Tell them you would like to apply to homeschool your child.

Fill in all of the necessary paperwork (be patient – you have to jump through many hoops).

Once accepted, tell your child’s school of your plans and set a date to leave public school and start homeschooling!



Brother and sister on fence. Homeschooling in New zealand

Brother and sister. Homeschooling does make your kids closer (they have no choice!) Homeschooling for us in New Zealand was the best decision that we ever made.


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To Sum Up – Homeschooling Vs Public Schooling


This isn’t a post on the many benefits of homeschooling, it is a comparison between the two choices that your child has – homeschooling and public school.

I could go on and on about homeschooling vs public schooling because homeschooling worked wonderfully for us. You may be different, and I don’t want you thinking that the life of a homeschool mum is a bed of roses – it isn’t.


My kids weren’t happy at school so homeschooling them was what we chose to do. Now, ten years later they are happy, free to spend their time how they wish and we get to travel all over the world without paying fines!

For us, there was never a comparison between the two. Let me know how you stand on homeschooling and public school. Have you done both? Do you want to swap from one to the other? Drop me a comment below and please, if you enjoyed this post please share it with someone who would benefit.





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