by Liz Deacle | Podcasts
We weren’t going to release this podcast episode.
The original plan was to discuss whether, after losing her mum to cancer six weeks ago, the deep sadness Liz is feeling is normal grief (as one would expect) or a worryingly worsening depression.
And while that’s what we did end up discussing, the route we took to arrive at the conclusion was different to what we anticipated.
We were ready to scrap the episode and start again.
But. We changed our mind.
On reflection (and a large red wine later), we agreed that these authentic, unscripted, messy conversations are often the most valuable.
We certainly hope so.
You are incredibly important and cherished by us both. If you are suffering in any way, please talk to a professional who can help. You are loved, and you are not alone.
Until next time. Kia kaha.
Arohanui
Liz and Brian xx
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by Liz Deacle | Personal, Podcasts
No description. No words. Just a story.
And a thank you. A huge, huge thank you.
Thank you for allowing me to share the intimate details of such a sad and heartbreaking time. And for confirming that no matter who we are, where we live, what we look like, or how we spend our days:
Our hearts beat as one.
And now, a tribute to the woman who made it all seem so very easy.
I love you.
Liz x
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by Liz Deacle | Personal, Podcasts
Wrong. Wrong. And wrong again.
You’d think that I’d have learned by now. I’ve had fifty-three years to practice, after all.
But no.
Still, I make the mistake of thinking that to make things ‘better’ and ‘easier’, I must look outside of myself.
Go far afield. Spend a ton of money and wrap my mum and me up in cashmere rugs, then sit alongside Rose and Kathy Bates in first class on the Titanic.
Way off, Liz. Not even close.
This week’s podcast update is brought to you with love, tenderness and gratitude. And a few tears.
We wanted to share three things that happened to us in the past few weeks. Small serenities that brought unexpected comfort and respite while we attempt to navigate the imminent loss of my lovely mum.
Thank you for allowing us this safe space to share the intimate details of this challenging time in our lives. You are wonderful.
Yours,
Liz and Brian xx
PS: If you enjoy the podcast and would like to show your support, please consider leaving us a short 5-star review. It only takes a minute. You can review the It’s a Drama Podcast here Thank you x
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by Liz Deacle | Personal, Podcasts
This was one of the hardest podcast episodes I have ever recorded. But it was necessary.
I won’t watch the recording back because I know for a fact that I’ll get cold feet and tell Bri to delete it.
So. I hope it’s okay and that it isn’t too upsetting for you—my sincere apologies if it is. My intention was never to make you feel sad, only strong. Hugged. Confident. Brave enough to speak your truth. To always say what you wish to say to the people who matter the most.
Because the world needs truth.
The world needs real.
The world needs people like you.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for listening.
Yours,
Liz x
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by Liz Deacle | Personal, Podcasts
Another behind-the-scenes podcast where Liz and Brian share their decision to discuss such personal details about their marriage and life in public (including talking about Liz’s mum, who was recently diagnosed with terminal cancer).
The couple talks about how their family is (trying) to navigate the “new normal”, addressing guilt, wrestling with emotions and lastly, the importance of not assuming to know what others are thinking or feeling.
You never know. Not ever. If you doubt this statement, just remember what I told you about the Spitfire.
This podcast is my and Brian’s outlet: our escape, our therapy. And we really, really hope it feels the same for you too. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for giving us your ear and allowing us into your life each week to chat.
You are incredibly important, cherished and loved by us both.
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by Liz Deacle | Personal, Podcasts
This week is a behind-the-scenes podcast where Liz explains why she shared a very personal journal entry with three thousand people and the outcome of doing so.
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